Garry the white knight??
Not at all, you don't help a gambler by lending them more money and you don't help a drug addict by giving them hard drugs.
You want to slap around your girlfriend or wife... I don't care, but one day you will take a swing and instead of just taking it she will get a knife and **** you up... or her brother or father will.
After a few visits to A & E and she can build a case for spouse abuse and probably murder you by stabbing you when you are not ready... with a good life insurance policy she could probably do rather well... with you dead most juries will believe her story that you torment her every day and she honestly feared for her life when she stabbed you in the back 25 times carrying two bags of groceries into the kitchen past the kitchen knife block.
Or maybe she will put a sedative in your water bottle and make it look like an accidental house fire.
If the B gets into a fight where she knows she's gonna end up on the floor, then she only have herself to blame.
And many really are that stupid... but eventually your promises that you really love them and it will never happen again will wear thin.
Women can be frustrating, but they are human beings too and can be as nasty and vindictive as any men.
Not saying women are perfect and men are the problem, but people who feel trapped can do all sorts of shit... they invested time and money and effort and don't want to start again on their own, and in their minds if you hit them then you owe them...
Every case is different.
As for your example, there are plenty of women who get themselves into those bad boy relationships, oddly enough they don't use the feminist state to end it, weird?
No of course... the murder rate for women on men is rather low, because self defence doesn't count as murder, and not everyone can kill... certainly not premeditated killing.
But you often read about cases where a woman kills a man in the US and it turns out the guy bought the woman a self defence gun and showed her how to use it and the next time he got drunk and hit her she shot him... obviously the reality is tragic all round, but there is that funny side that the prick got what he deserved... but of course as usual it totally ignores what the fight was about... does he get punchy when he drinks or did she nag and nag and nag and when he formed his hands into a fist she shot him...
A history of injuries makes their case stronger... all his friends will say they were great together... because maybe they were and she just wanted to move on with all his stuff without messy divorce proceedings where they take so much money in Lawyers fees... but as I said... not everyone can kill.
Anyway, i find the stupid belief that women should never get hurt, utterly ridiculous, get out of line or do stupid sh%t (as you stated) win stupid prizes.
They want to be treated as equals, but you can't hit them like you would another man, so they really don't want equality.
Sri Lanka is one of the classic example showing that who is being accused of planting "debt traps" and who is actually planting these debt traps.
A BRICS bank that can lend the money to pay their debts to other countries and then allow them to pay off their debts.... the west wants to keep them in debt and will keep them in debt so they continually pay them an income on the money they lent.
BRICS could help them pay off the original debt and then look at measures to help them build their economy so the debt can be paid back so that the BRICS bank can then lend to another country so they can pay off their debts as well.
Women walks at night into dark alley with skimpy outfit, the F is she looking for?... answer, trouble.
Let her carry a 357 magnum revolver. Why can't she wear what she likes. If some guy can't control himself then a couple of slugs through his head will stop him bothering anyone ever again.
Read my lips, WOMEN are not above violence.
Some women can be violent of course, but the reason they get abused is almost never because they hit the guy first... it is normally mind games...
Do a search for a guy called Christopher Titus, an American comedian who tells about his own life experience... he had a TV show till it was cancelled, but in one episode he talks about a girlfriend he had that used to hit him but she was hot so he put up with it. Quite an interesting episode that explores quite a few aspects of the situation that are amusing... he is a 6ft plus guy and she was a little jewish woman so when the police were called regarding a domestic it was always him ending in cuffs...
Another person who might tickle your fancy would be Bill Burr... he as actually in the Mandelorian in a couple of episodes, but he is hilarious and not politically correct at all.
I agree with him on most of what he says but he does have anger issues too... which he admits to.